Why is it that first impressions are so important? Passing a judgement on somebody within a few seconds of meeting them - everything from their character to their "social status" to their rough annual wage - is something we all subconsciously do, and judging a book by it's cover has become the order of the day.
Not only that first impressions, but also to the person we have known for days, months & years. Being a private person myself, expressing of words is not easy and may be
misinterprete at times. Sometimes, thinking that just being quiet is better than putting words that may hurt other people feelings. Unintentionally. Just remain silent ....
But I feel like recently every single judgement that I have formulated about a person has turned out to be not only wrong but the complete opposite of reality. I better stop judging and having doubt on people. It will leads to no where but ending the relationship and bonding we had with the person. Nauzubillah, I don't want that to happen.
Don't ever let your initial opinion of somebody cloud your judgement, give them a chance, you might be surprised ~ quoted
“Forgive he who wrongs you, re-unite with he who cuts you off, do good to he who harms you and speak the truth even if it may be to your disadvantage." - The Prophet Muhammed (S) -
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